By attuning to the Sacred, we restore wholeness and break free from shame and isolation.
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From the desk of Chris, Founder of Sacred Sobriety
Re: Breaking the cycle of relapse with a path that honors the Sacred
If you’ve ever felt trapped in the endless cycle of failed attempts, guilt, and despair,
I’ve been there too. At 25, after waking up from a blackout in jail, I knew something had to change. That day, I made the life-altering decision to commit to sobriety. Now, 20 years later, at 45, I can look back and see that it was just the beginning of a journey filled with hard-earned wisdom and a deep desire to help others find their way.
Sacred Sobriety exists because I believe recovery should be about more than just abstinence. It’s about reconnecting with the Sacred, creating structure in a life that’s often been chaotic, and building the foundation for lasting transformation. Maybe you can relate to the rocky start—perhaps you’ve had your own moments of hitting bottom or questioning whether things could ever change.
Even after I chose sobriety, I wasn’t immune to the dark depths of drinking & substance abuse. I’ve endured the cold loneliness of emergency rooms, sidewalk homelessness, county jails, and weeks of overwhelming despair bordering suicidal thoughts.
Yet, through all of that, one truth became clear:
It is suffering, not intelligence, that shapes character and strength. I refused to let those moments define me.
Greatness isn’t born from intelligence; it emerges from character. And character isn’t shaped by how smart someone is—it’s forged in the fires of struggle and hardship. True strength comes from those who have endured and grown through suffering, allowing it to deepen their resilience, empathy, and integrity. These are the priceless gifts I continue to receive.
I found my way out by:
- Never giving up on myself, even when the road seemed impossible.
- Intuitively seeking the Sacred, knowing that something greater was guiding me, even when I couldn’t see it.
- Asking for help, because sometimes the only way out of the darkness is to reach for someone else’s light.
Along the way, I discovered a few key principles that not only kept me sober but helped me build a life filled with purpose, clarity, and peace. These insights might just be the keys you’ve been searching for, the ones that can help you break free from the chains of addiction and step into a life of freedom and spiritual connection.
Here are five insights I’ve learned through my own journey, and I hope they will serve as a guide for yours…
My Perspective on Recovery
1. Recovery is not about feeling powerless.
It’s a proactive, empowering journey of healing and self-discovery. While we may be powerless over people, places, and things, our spiritual connection empowers us. We may control nothing, but we influence everything. Let’s choose to have a positive influence.
2. Transcending guilt & shame is crucial—they keep us sick.
- “You’re only as sick as your secrets.” Ever wonder why secrets make us spiritually sick? It’s the guilt and shame associated with them, not the secret itself.
- Years of guilt and shame can serve as barriers to healing. Generational and societal forms of guilt and shame perpetuate cycles of sickness and disconnection.
- The average alcoholic or addict carries a disproportionate burden of guilt and shame compared to most, making a specialized and compassionate approach to recovery crucial.
- Relapsing isn’t shameful and it isn’t starting over; it’s starting from experience. A slip should never diminish your self-worth—hierarchies and judgment have no place in a spiritual program rooted in humility and growth.
3. Sobriety, in Jungian terms, is a heroic act of self-discovery.
It’s not about suppressing desires but transforming them into something meaningful. The same energy that once fueled addiction is now redirected toward a higher purpose (spiritual alchemy).
4. Human pleasure is hijacked and distorted by a culture that exalts hedonism and materialism over the Sacred.
We’ve stripped the soul from society, something the ancients possessed in abundance. They were deeply connected to the spiritual energies of the world and nature, and in losing that connection, we’ve lost sight of what truly nourishes the soul and what it means to be fully human.
5. Optimal challenge and a higher purpose are superior to fleeting happiness.
Desire strength over happiness. Happiness is a transient state, often dependent on comfort and ease. But true strength comes from embracing stoicism—the pursuit of growth through adversity. Too much comfort weakens us, turning our lives into a form of hell. It is through facing challenges and striving for a higher purpose that we discover what it means to truly thrive.
These are just my experiences and opinions—I’m constantly learning and evolving every day, and I promise to be honest about my conclusions as I go. Remember, I’m walking this path right alongside you, and in many ways, we’re all spiritual infants on this journey. I offer friendly advice, not as a guru, but as a kindred spirit. Personally, I trust humility over intelligence, and I wouldn’t place my faith in anyone who claims to have all the answers.
What Makes This Approach Different?
My approach to recovery weaves the Sacred with Adjacent Wisdom, blending ancient spiritual practices and modern science to heal addiction at its root.
Most recovery programs and coaching rely on traditional treatments that often emphasize discipline and control, sometimes evoking shame—an approach that seems at odds with the medical disease model of addiction.
So which is it: is addiction a disease, or do we just need more discipline?
You’re told that you’re powerless, that you must conform to a rigid set of steps, and that healing only comes after hitting rock bottom. But recovery isn’t about punishment.
It’s about healing, empowerment, and the integration of all aspects of yourself, including those you may have rejected or suppressed.
Here’s what makes this approach truly unique:
Clarity over Shame: You won’t be shamed into change. Instead, we’ll bring clarity to your strengths, weaknesses, and motivations. True recovery begins with humility—a deep acknowledgment of our limitations and the surrender of control to a higher power. By recognizing that we cannot walk this path alone, we open ourselves to grace and the spiritual guidance that leads to healing.
Embracing the Shadow: Addiction often masks deep pain or unresolved issues. In recovery, it’s essential to face the shadow—the parts of yourself you’ve denied or hidden. Drawing from Carl Jung’s shadow work, we’ll acknowledge and work with these aspects of yourself, liberating the energy trapped in addiction and redirecting it toward growth, wholeness, and inner peace.
Connection over Isolation: Addiction thrives in isolation, but recovery flourishes in connection—to yourself, to others, and to the Sacred. By attuning to the Sacred, we restore wholeness and break free from the isolating grip of addiction.
Adjacent Wisdom: Expanding the Boundaries of Healing
After 20 years of exploring recovery, I’ve realized that traditional methods often fall short of addressing addiction’s deeper complexities. That’s why this approach embraces Adjacent Wisdom—a philosophy that integrates ancient spiritual practices, modern sciences, and esoteric knowledge to redefine recovery.
From mindfulness, Stoicism, and shamanism to quantum physics, chakra-meridian systems, and Jungian psychology, this holistic framework weaves together insights that expand the boundaries of healing. Recovery becomes more than abstinence; it’s a journey of transformation—mind, body, and spirit.
This approach integrates ancient wisdom with modern science to address not just the symptoms of addiction, but the deeper causes that lie within. By weaving together meditative practices, subconscious exploration, and energetic realignment, you’ll discover a path to healing that nurtures every aspect of your being.
Recovery isn’t a rigid set of rules—it’s a sacred process of rediscovery, growth, and connection with your higher self. Join me as we explore what recovery can truly mean and create a life that honors your wholeness.
Client Testimonial
“When my mother introduced me to Chris’s teachings, I was struck by how genuine and aligned his approach was with my values. Chris never tried to push me into a one-size-fits-all program—he took the time to understand me and helped me discover my own unique path to recovery. His guidance gave me the tools to succeed, but more importantly, it reconnected me with my spiritual journey in a way I hadn’t experienced before. Thanks to Chris, I feel more empowered, centered, and capable of creating the life I truly want.”
Shadow Work Mastery
Imagine embarking on an adventure, not through forests or caves, but within the depths of your own psyche. That’s precisely what we explore together in my coaching sessions.
Drawing from the profound insights of Carl Jung, I guide you to encounter aspects of your inner self often obscured from daily awareness — akin to discovering hidden treasures or confronting shadowed fears.
Together, we will delve into these secret realms not merely for understanding, but to empower you, making you feel complete and robust. This journey transcends mere habit-breaking; it’s about transforming into your optimal self.
Watch this action-packed video from my YouTube channel to get a sense of my style.
Recovery Isn’t a Punishment—It’s a Heroic Journey
Addiction thrives in chaos, but recovery flourishes in order. The same chaos that fuels addiction creates disorganized habits and impulsive behavior. The solution to this chaos is structure—the kind that restores clarity, stability, and meaning to life. Recovery requires discipline, but it’s not the cold, rigid discipline of punishment. Instead, it’s a life-giving practice that brings freedom through clarity and purpose.
As Jung believed, life’s greatest challenges serve as invitations for transformation, and addiction is no different. It presents both a crisis and an opportunity. The chaos of addiction may feel overwhelming, but it is the very soil from which new order can grow. This reflects the individuation process, where we confront the light and shadow within us to achieve true inner harmony.
Yet, the hero’s journey is also one of humility. True strength lies not in self-sufficiency, but in the recognition that we are guided by a power/force greater than ourselves (the Sacred). It is through this connection that we find the wisdom and strength to face our struggles.
Recovery Rituals
These practices cultivate a powerful frequency that generates momentum, fostering stability and unwavering strength:
- Prayer to start & finish your day
- Meditation to activate your spiritual guidance system
- Earthing (and nature bathing) to restore harmony
- Move your body for energy and mood
- Journaling to learn how you think (free therapist)
- Reading to sharpen your mind & creativity
- New & Fun challenges to build confidence & elevate frequency
- Gratitude to extinguish negative energy that drains
Without structure, it’s easy to get trapped in the cycle of chaos, constantly reacting to cravings, emotions, and circumstances. But by creating order—through meaningful rituals—you can replace the destructive habits and rebuild your life.
Addiction thrives in chaos. Recovery calms the chaos.
Pricing and Exclusivity
I deeply believe that healing from addiction requires a compassionate, individualized approach, coupled with the responsibility and effort required for lasting change. Due to the intensive nature of this work, I can only take on 4 clients each month to ensure that each person receives the attention and care they deserve.
Two Pricing Options:
- Four-Week Foundation: Get a sense of working with me and build a transformative foundation at a fraction of traditional in-patient costs.
- 90-Day Sacred Journey: Go all-in for comprehensive healing over time, still significantly less than in-patient treatment.
Scholarships: I am deeply committed to supporting those who are genuinely ready to heal, regardless of financial challenges. If this speaks to you but cost feels like an obstacle, you may be eligible to apply for a 25-50% scholarship if you’re currently experiencing financial hardship (proof of income required).
Ready to Begin Your Transformation?
This program is for those seeking more than just sobriety. **It’s for those who want spiritual transformation—**to reconnect with their inner self, heal from within, and align their recovery with a deeper purpose.
You’re in the right place if:
- You want to break free from addiction but don’t resonate with traditional recovery programs.
- You’re seeking spiritual growth alongside sobriety.
- You want a recovery plan that celebrates who you are and supports your unique path.
Client Testimonial
“I was initially skeptical about working with a coach, but Chris’s approach was unlike anything I’d experienced before. From the very first session, I felt understood and supported without judgment. Chris didn’t just focus on my addiction—he helped me uncover my strengths and guided me in building a recovery plan that truly fit who I am. His calm, grounded presence gave me the clarity and confidence I needed to take meaningful steps forward in my life. If you’re looking for someone who listens deeply and helps you reconnect with your purpose, I highly recommend Chris.”
Frequently Asked Questions
Will I be working with Chris or someone else?
You’ll be working with me personally throughout the entire process. I’ll guide you through the assessments, help you understand the results, and walk with you through every step of the journey.
Is family involved in the process?
We encourage family involvement if it’s helpful. Understanding family dynamics can enhance your recovery.
What if I don’t live near you?
That’s no problem! The entire process can be done virtually via Zoom, and all assessments are online.
What’s included in the process?
The program includes one-on-one coaching sessions, assessments, and personalized recovery tools. You won’t be overwhelmed with homework (always optional); the process is designed to be supportive and flexible.
How does this program help?
Most recovery plans aren’t designed for you—they’re designed for someone else. This program gives you a custom plan that works with your unique personality, strengths, and spiritual needs, helping you break free from addiction.
How much does it cost?
The 4-week program costs $1,888, including four private sessions, six months of access to Loyall (AI Recovery Companion), and assessments. You can also upgrade to the All Access Coaching Package for $5,888, which includes 12 coaching sessions and more.
Is it worth the money?
That’s up to you. What is the value of your peace, freedom, and fulfillment? This program is designed to give you the clarity and tools to live the life you’ve always deserved.
How is this different from counseling?
Counseling often focuses on diagnosing past trauma. This coaching process is about moving forward—helping you create a future aligned with your true self and strengths.
Do you offer any guarantees?
We understand the courage it takes to start your recovery journey. That’s why we offer:
- Risk-Free First Session: If the first session doesn’t resonate with you, simply let us know, and we’ll refund your payment—no questions asked.
- 21-Day Foundation Commitment: Engage fully in the program for 21 days, and if you don’t see meaningful progress, we’ll review your experience and provide a partial refund for unused sessions.
This ensures you can begin your journey with confidence and peace of mind.
What's your refund policy?
Once you enroll, we reserve all your appointment times on my calendar and secure your access to the necessary assessments. Due to the time and resources invested upfront, we do not offer full refunds for the 4-week program. We can issue you a full credit for a future time or offer 50% back now (this covers our losses).
That said, we understand that life can be unpredictable. If something urgent arises, we’re flexible with rescheduling as long as you provide advance notice.
If you’re purchasing this for someone else, please ensure they are fully ready and committed to the process before enrolling. This will help everyone get the best results from the program.
What if I miss one of my appointments?
Once you’re signed up, we’ll schedule your 4 private sessions at times that work best for you. If something comes up and you can’t make a scheduled appointment, simply let us know at least 24 hours (or one business day) in advance, and we’ll happily reschedule it for you.
In the event of a late cancellation or a no-show, we can still reschedule your session, though an additional session fee will apply.
Can I apply for a loved one?
Yes, you can fill out the application either for yourself or for a loved one.
However, before you submit the application, I recommend having your loved one watch a few of my videos. This will give them a better sense of my coaching style and help determine if we’re the right fit. It’s essential that they feel comfortable and engaged in the process, as this can significantly enhance the success of the coaching.
You can select a couple of videos from my YouTube channel that you think would resonate with them.
Step Into Your Heroic Journey Today
Recovery isn’t just about breaking free from addiction; it’s about discovering the God-given Sacred power within you. Are you ready to face your demons and do the work?
What if YOU are the hero? What if THIS is your moment?
Client Testimonial
“Chris has a unique ability to make you feel safe and seen, which allowed me to open up about things I’ve kept hidden for years. His blend of optimism and humor was exactly what I needed to add levity this difficult time. Unlike other programs where I felt pushed or judged, Chris focused on my strengths. I also really liked his approach to the hero’s journey metaphor. He would always remind me to be my own hero. I still think that’s cool AF.”