Clarity Coach with a Mystical Approach
I know the feeling of being lost and lonely, even moments when hope seemed unreachable. I’ve overcome the depths of alcoholism, substance abuse, and homelessness by connecting to God, not giving up on myself, and asking for help. Let me help you gain clarity on where you are now and illuminate a path forward.
IMPORTANT: Although I trained for years with a legit Shaman who lived in the jungle, I don't claim to be a Shaman or deal with plant medicine. Additionally, I am not a doctor. Please seek medical advice from a licensed professional when necessary.
We offer 1-on-1 coaching, supportive videos, a private online community, and our “AI Sobriety Shaman,” RYNA, to support your journey.
Exploring harm reduction or sober curious? We welcome all forms of abstinence and sobriety—here, you will find zero judgment.
Mystic Rinse
1-on-1 Immersive 8-Week Program:
- Profound Clarity: We unveil the hidden aspects of your true self, bringing subconscious patterns to light. This deep self-awareness becomes the foundation for lasting change and empowered decision-making.
- Sacred Mentorship: Discover the timeless power of Sacred Mentorship, exploring the need for spiritual guides and the mystical concept of ‘transmission’ in personal growth. Learn from ancient traditions that have long valued the mentor-disciple relationship. Apply these enduring principles to your recovery journey, unlocking transformative potential through guided spiritual lineage.
- Intensive Support: Sixteen 60-minute sessions over 8 weeks for steady progress. Intensive accountability is key—let’s give it our all, or we may need to part ways.
- Ongoing Follow-Up: Email support and accountability throughout.
- 12-Step Friendly: Can enhance any 12-step program.
- Unique Approach: Blending mystical wisdom with practical strategies, we adjust and harness unseen energetic and spiritual forces. This “woo-woo yet remarkably practical” method provides a powerful framework for breaking self-destructive patterns and unlocking your true potential.
- Build Your Coalition: It’s essential to create a wall of love and support around us that isn’t toxic and depleting. That gives us energy and encouragement to push forward. We may need to “weed the garden.”
- Relapse Security System: We learn how to notice and anticipate our emotional weather patterns. We intuit our triggers and stand ready.
- Rebirth Ceremony: Upon completion, a profound esoteric ceremony is held to honor and celebrate the transition that has occurred.
Emerge with newfound clarity, purpose, and tools for lasting change.
*Ask about the “psilocybin-enhanced” version of this program.
The 8 Rituals
We will focus on one ritual per week. Rituals provide structure and accountability, which leads to a robust foundation for a durable and exciting life. Almost all of these rituals are forms of reprogramming and reframing. They require do-ing, which translates into our becoming and creates a sense of inner peace (be-ing).
When we are consistent, these rituals become routines put on autopilot, freeing up our mental energy to focus on adventures, giving back, and conscious expansion.
- Please the Beast: We must discover creative ways to negotiate with our primal nature, for it is an integral part of who we are—one that should not be extinguished. Instead, we should harness this immensely powerful force to propel us forward. By consciously integrating both the Shadow and Primal aspects of our psyche, we can transform these potent energies into constructive forces, rather than allowing them to unconsciously shape our behavior in potentially harmful ways (self-sabotage).
- Ancestor Veneration: Cultivate a connection to the Sacred bond you have with your ancestors, fostering deep appreciation and humility that heals.
- Nature Veneration: Forest bathing helps us remember that we are nature. It is our ancient family. And nature nourishes, heals, and strengthens our life force.
- Spellbinding Bookends: Start your day with a gratitude ritual and finish it with an inventory ritual. We attract more of what we feel and focus on (our vibes). This is a form of magnetization.
- Conjure Visions: Learn to see the future with clarity. Discover how to set inspiring goals that energize you each morning. Cultivate visions and intuitions that foster win-win scenarios, benefiting not just yourself but others as well, transcending purely selfish aims.
- Gamify Grit: Yes, pick your pain. Choose your challenge. Life inevitably involves discomfort, but when we take control and approach it as a game, we empower ourselves. By intentionally tackling difficult tasks, we make the rest of life feel easier and more manageable.
- Mystical Meditation: This practice blends traditional meditation with a mystical perspective to activate Consciousness. It involves personalized guided meditations designed to connect with your Higher Self.
- Mekka “Thank You” Prayer: “Mekka” is an ancient Egyptian term used to convey gratitude and reverence, particularly within religious and ritual contexts. “Thank you” is one of the most profound prayers you can offer, embodying both simplicity and depth. Yes, that is literally the entire prayer: “thank you.” When we integrate this prayer into our daily lives, we invite the Universe to respond with grace and favor.
Having reached a higher vibrational state, we take responsibility for our past actions and make amends with those we’ve hurt, striving to build a brand of integrity that allows us to feel good in our own skin and respect the person we see in the mirror.
Part of this process involves confessing our harm to others to the extent that we seek freedom from the negative energies associated with our actions. This form of confession is like a mystical baptism, offering a deep spiritual cleansing compatible with any faith.
The Dual Pathways
My approach to recovery and healing operates on two interconnected levels:
Rewiring the Biological AI
Humans can be viewed as Nature’s biological AI, with deeply ingrained patterns driving our behaviors and responses. This foundational level of work involves:
- Reprogramming subconscious scripts
- Addressing root causes of depression, trauma, and relationship issues
- Developing advanced coping skills for life’s challenges
- Navigating major life transitions
This deep work forms the bedrock of lasting change, altering the very core of our automatic responses.
The Art of Reframing
Building upon our rewired foundation, reframing offers a powerful tool for daily emotional management:
- Shifts conscious perceptions in real-time
- Employs the transformative question: “What else could this mean?”
- Cultivates resilience and a positive outlook
- Provides swift relief and adaptive responses to immediate situations
Reframing complements the deeper work by offering a practical, everyday approach to mental wellness. It’s about embracing curiosity over hasty judgments, allowing us to navigate life’s challenges with greater ease and perspective.
These dual pathways work in synergy, addressing both our deep-seated patterns and our moment-to-moment perceptions. Together, they forge a comprehensive approach to personal growth, equipping us with the tools to thrive in all aspects of life.
Accumulated Sobriety
Redefining Recovery Progress
In recovery, many of us have multiple sobriety dates. When we relapse, traditional approaches often label us as “newcomers” who need to start over. While this perspective has some merit, it can unintentionally foster a culture that disregards the wisdom we’ve gained on our journey, treating us as if we’re back at square one.
We believe in the importance of a beginner’s mind and humility when we slip. However, instead of diminishing someone’s progress after a relapse, we advocate for recognizing the accumulated wisdom that continues to grow with each experience.
What Is Accumulated Sobriety?
- Begins the day you commit to recovery.
- Time accumulates even after a slip (no reset to zero).
- Reflects your ongoing dedication to the path.
Why Accumulated Sobriety Matters
- Reduces the stigma of relapse.
- Increases the chances of sustained recovery.
- Lessens guilt and shame, helping to keep you alive.
*In recovery, progress matters more than perfection.
How This Works in Real Life
When asked about your sobriety time, confidently share your accumulated sobriety. This approach isn’t misleading; it’s a more accurate reflection of your ongoing journey.
“I’ve been on my recovery journey for 8 years now. I’ve accumulated 6 years sobriety during this time.”
Explain that accumulated sobriety is a growing trend in recovery that saves lives by reducing the guilt and shame associated with setbacks.
This approach shifts the focus to the positive aspects of your journey, rather than being defined by a single date or relapse.
If someone questions your approach to your recovery, remember it’s your Sacred journey. Ego has no place here (and they may have controlling tendencies), so just smile and don’t take it personally.
Advantages to Accumulated Sobriety
- Reduces Stigma and Shame: Focusing on continuous effort rather than uninterrupted sobriety creates a more compassionate environment that recognizes recovery isn’t always linear.
- Promotes Honesty: Emphasizing accumulated sobriety encourages open discussions about the realities of recovery, fostering genuine growth and mutual support.
- Enhances Relapse Prevention: Acknowledging daily efforts reinforces the idea that recovery is an ongoing process, better equipping individuals to face challenges and reducing relapse risk.
- Celebrates Holistic Progress: This approach acknowledges improvements across various life areas—relationships, mental health, personal development—not just abstinence.
- Creates Inclusive Community: Valuing ongoing effort over the length of sobriety creates a welcoming environment for newcomers and those who’ve experienced setbacks.
Honor All of Your Hard-Earned Sobriety
While our focus is on accumulated sobriety, sobriety dates remain valuable milestones, marking significant turning points and offering motivation. We honor both the individual stretches of sobriety and long, uninterrupted periods, recognizing that the latter often involves elements of luck and grace beyond our control.
“I get to take credit for the effort I’ve put into maintaining my sobriety, but good luck is a gift I shouldn’t take credit for, and equally, bad luck isn’t something I should be penalized for.”
This Is Between You and the Sacred
You have complete freedom to decide what your recovery looks like, how you find your personal solution to this spiritual malady, and how you communicate about it. This journey is between you and the Sacred. As long as you’re spiritually connected and making overall progress, count your days however you choose – no one else’s opinion matters.